Publications
Select Authored Works
Existential Lessons of Dr. Martin Luther King’s Depression
Black Feminism without Transmisogyny Frees Everyone
5 Unconscious Biases to Unlearn about Non-Binary People
Can the Stress of Biased Policing Cause Physical Disability?
Male Survivors of Abuse Can Heal Without Misogyny
Confronting Misconceptions about Nonbinary, Trans Faculty, Staff and Students
Real Progress Takes Time. 5 Ways Activists Can Keep Their Stamina Up.
20 Affirmations & Readings for Folks Raised in Anti-LGBTQ+ Church Families
6 Ways the Church Can Address the LGBTQ+ Suicide Epidemic
Therapists for Women of Color and Queer People: How to Find One
52 Mental Health Resources for Disabled People, POC, LGBTQ+ Folks, and More
How We Can Transform Schools Into Sites of Racial Healing
Invited Features
At ‘Black Out’ Performances, The Power of Healing through Community, The New York Times
Social Media and Mental Health: How to Make Your Relationship Healthier, Teen Vogue
10 Expert Tips for Thoughtfully Talking About Racism With Family or Friends, Buzzfeed
Suicidal Ideation Is Hard to Talk About—So Here’s How to Talk About It, Greatist
Our Best Advice for LGBTQ+ College Students, From People Who Have Been There, SELF
Mental Health or Marxism? Therapists on the Fight over Social Emotional Learning in Schools, Psychotherapy Networker
How to Cope When Everything Feels Bad and Somehow It Keeps Getting Worse, VICE
Rejected by Church and Family, a Sonoma County Native Finds Peace, The Press Democrat
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